Dear Daddy: What is your favorite sexual thing to do?

That’s a difficult question for me. I have different reasons for enjoying just about anything I can do with a boy but none of them really stand out above the rest as ‘most’ enjoyable or a ‘favorite’ thing. I tend to do about as many as I can as often as I can in rotation so things stay fresh and don’t become a ‘rut’ to be stuck in. Though if I had to choose one thing above all others there is one, but is for a very specific set of reasons.

Submission isn’t as simple as ‘doing whatever’ the other partner wants. It’s about the gift of much more than your obedience as well. it’s about concentration, dedication and devotion (some call that worship) of their partner by seeking to provide them as much pleasure as possible. This opportunity is, in my opinion, best presented through oral sex.

Oral sex as a dominant experience. 

Oral sex begins with trust. I am trusting you, boy, to mind yourself and not hurt me in your enthusiasm.

Oral sex is power. In letting you do this I’m giving you permission to express your appreciation in this way. You are being given the opportunity to show your gratitude, adoration and earnest enjoyment of not only the activity but of the man before you. This is the time you show me these things.

Consider who is acting and who is controlling. Your mouth may be offering pleasure, but the hand on your head controls your action. It tells you when to stop, to stay, to start, to go harder or softer.

It tells you you are doing well and when you’ve done something so right that it can’t help but tense and hold you still.

Without words it gives you instructions and maintains control even though you are the one being active. It may simply guide your motion or hold you still to give you a break and let Daddy do the work for a while.

If your true goal is to please me then this is the time you show me that is your desire. You make my enjoyment your satisfaction and set aside all other distractions.  I usually say “Eyes on the Prize” and that’s what this means. You keep your eyes focused on your work, your jaw in the right position and continue your efforts to please leaving me the responsibilities of reward and approval for your actions and your submission.

From the moment it touches your lips to when you feel it flood your mouth or cover you in your reward, you need to keep your ‘self’ under control. You won’t get your reward until you’ve earned it and that means you may get tired, your jaw may be sore or you may be sweating but you mustn’t give in to the urge to quit. While you’re occupied with my cock, I am still breaking you boy.

I will make you look at me. I will make you refocus, breathe and meet my gaze so you can see and hear my approval.

I will tell you how good you make me feel and how proud I am of my good boy.

Your hands busy, your lips stretched and jaw tired, you’ll still feel my touch and hear my voice as you work. While all those things are distracted, that’s when you’ll hear me going to work on you.  Part of me may be in your mouth boy, but the biggest part of Daddy is always inside you: in your mind.

I want you to never surrender, to be unbreakable, to find the power I know is within you so I won’t let you quit. You have set the goal, made your purpose clear and I will not let you fail in this but I cannot simply ‘hand it to you’ or it will have no meaning to you.

So I make you sweat. I make you work HARD before you reach your goal. I will make you sore, your voice hoarse, and you will feel every moment that the gift you’ve given me is your submission and your desire to please me. You have given me a gift in your choice to please me. You know that as a boy that means I will, at my discretion either leave you to show me how much you’ve learned and how dedicated you are or exercise my vital powers as a Daddy and guide what happens next.
I may lay back and let you work.

Or I may take control from the beginning.

Ultimately it doesn’t matter how ‘dominant’ I am during oral sex because , in spite of my cock being in YOUR mouth, it isn’t about me. It truly is about you. Your gift to me, all the things I’ve just spoken about, are what give me pleasure in the action. The rest are my tools for making that pleasure greater for both of us. All of this, and so much more, makes Oral Sex stand out as a favorite of mine.
That.. and I do love a sticky, happy,  boy..

This picture gives you everything I was talking about and is precisely why I consider it to be that kind of experience.

While that may be how it looks from the ‘outside’ that’s not the picture I meant. I mean this one of @whisperpup and @castrokinky

Every thing I took that entire post to write is right here. All of it. It is one of my favorite pictures , of all time, because it does that so simply as to be missed but to my  eye it’s loud and clear.
He is where he belongs. Serving who he belongs to. Obedient, patient, focused, dedicated and adorable doing all these things in his efforts to please his Sir/Daddy. It doesn’t need words, or animation or sound, for me to know what is on his mind or in his heart in this moment and that is the gift. The submission is to his truth, to being himself and making those things his offering.
‘Pleasure’ is cheap. You have grindr for sex. THIS you cannot buy or wrap or order online. This only comes from the balance of a boy where he belongs; in the care of the Man he trusts and adores.  So to them both for sharing this moment I say:

Thank you.